August 4, 2008
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Losing a Niece and gaining a Nephew
I'm a little sad over this and I'm not sure why. I think it's stupid that I am. My niece announced last Thanksgiving that she was a lesbian and has since gone all out. Stopped shaving her legs, cut her hair like a guys, binding her breats, etc. Ok, no big deal, I love her no matter what and I respect and admire her courage in coming out, especially in my family. I just read her Facebook this morning and she's announced that she's changing her name to Keegan Edward. I went to her page and she's not only changed her name but her gender as well. Made me kinda sad to think that I'm losing my niece which is really stupid since she's still the same warm, loving human being that she always was, she's just deciding to make her world more comfortable for her...as a him. Leni, I miss your long hair and make up and you're still my niece in my heart and I love you no matter what gender you decide to be!
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That takes a lot of courage. It must have taken a lot of deep thought to make that decision.
I think I can understand being sad about your niece. It's almost like losing someone for you. I am glad you are willing to embrace your niece no matter what!
So, hold on...
Is she a latent/incipient transsexual or a lesbian??
Being a lesbian has absolutely nothing to do with being masculine, in fact a lot of the lesbians I've met have been incredibly feminine... and beautiful, and with all their curves intact. They just choose other girls instead of men. Yes, some lesbians DO behave more masculine than others... but it's by no means a rule of thumb. Just like not all gay men are "camp" or feminine in their behaviour.
I'm glad you can accept your niece regardless of what gender she feels she belongs to. It's difficult for all involved....you are a wonderful person for continuing to love her...she will need all the love she can get from family & friends.
RYC: "Agencies"....thanks, m'dear...I'm gonna need all the luck & blessings I can get!
Hope you are doing well......
Love to yas.......AbbeyC
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